Coming out…
I’m ready to come out actually!
After all this tough years struggling to show my true identity but with
condition of course. I cant just go out and tell people that I’m day, gile
aper!
When I realised that I am gay,
the first thing that was crossed my mind how should I tell parents about this,
you know lah all this kampung old people. Imagine if I tell them that Im gay
and they will be like “what was that? Food or something?” But compare to
current calture, we all know what is that mean, even a kid know what is that.
I have been struggling with my
own feeling by covering up with people around me and all of you guys are under
same tunnel, arent you guys? I think Im gay for the passed 13 years and the
first person know that I’m gay is my foster sister and she accept me as I am
and some of my friends know which I couldn’t care much, you know lah all this
chinese thinking!
I haven’t think about coming out
for so many years, but until recently, when I moved in to stay with my family
member and started to have some problem but she said she knew that I’m gay and
het know my boyfriend too. Well, why I move in at the first place is a entirely
different story.
So when we started to have
problem and my bf knew about it because I share everything with him and this is
when I decided that I’m ready to coe out actually. My parents aware of the
issue but didn’t know what I am but I bet one day she’ll definitely tell them
which I’m ready to face it.
I know it’s not a nice thing to
know by the parents but how long I need to run from the reality, I’m tired and
can’t afford to run anymore. Well, I’m prepared myself to face the worst and
not worry at all, I have got a good career with a good position and pay, have
all the contigency plan ready and above all, have a full supportive boyfriend
who stood beside me all times.
So this is it, I don’t care
anymore and I’m ready to come out!
Until
then,
So
& So
The Legend Prince
10 comments:
What? Abg tak sangka..
Hak hak hak..
Drama sgt..
Gudluck my bro.. ; )
Pat ..
Slowly k
Don't surprise ur parents tetiba cakap u gay all the way .. ada bf bagai.. u know kan all this kampung type ..haha
Have some conversation dulu .. light and deep conversation .. observe it 1st. Rasa2 diorang dah paham. Then you go. :p
i think its okay to come out if u think u r ready for the consequences...
kadang2 bila kita come out tu, kita akan rasa kurang sedikit tekanan dan beban yang dipikul, even that person boleh terima kita seadanya ataupun tidak.
Good luck dude !
Adam: Haha sometime, I just full of surprises, didn't I :D
Numan: Nah, don't worry bang. I won't tell or reveal until or unless someone else put the seed thought!
Gibb:n Kan....after dah reveal kan...you feel like you're free to do anything...you feel so relax.
Unknown: Thanks!
hurmm honesty la.. shin rasa no need pon nk bagitau parent or family bagai.. takot makin kusut dan rumit.. la ni benda ni memberi masalah ke.. still leh ber bf kan.. continue je la life yak sedia ada ni mcm biasa..
Good luck! i think it's good that more gay people realized the need to come out in the bid to live authentic lives. whatever you are, family have to learn the value of unconditional love. my experience of coming out was difficult, but it was worth it. Things aren't always smooth, but at least I'm not hiding anything from my family.
Coming out is good if you feel its the right time and place. Take it slow and easy :)
All the best!
It's good that you come out about but remember their your folks and you have accept it whatever they say ...
Adlexus: Thanks for the support buddy
Marcus: *hug*
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